Know Which Writing Opportunities To Pursue And Which To Pass

by Maggie Wallem Rowe

 Since you’re taking a few moments to read this post, it’s safe to assume you’ve got all the time in the world to pursue your calling as a writer, right?

Wrong. If you’re anything like me, there aren’t enough hours in the day to take advantage of every opportunity to learn about our craft. We have writers conferences to prepare for and webinars to attend, critique groups and writers guilds to join, proposals to polish and projects to pitch.

With so many possibilities for the Christian writer, how do we know which opportunities we should pursue and which we should allow to pass by? What’s the best way to determine which assignments are from God, and which of our goals might stem instead purely from personal ambition?

I spent several decades fulfilling every opportunity I believe God sent my way: freelance reporting for a regional Christian newspaper, collaborations with other writers, work-for-hire assignments for nearly a dozen devotional Bibles from major publishers. Blogging weekly to meet the felt needs of my modest flock of subscribers.

As much as I loved to share my faith through the written word, I was convinced no traditional publisher would be interested in me as a solo author. I never prepared a proposal or pitched a book idea. I told myself no before any agent or editor had a chance to.

Yet in an amazing turn of events when I turned 65, a publisher who was in the audience at an outreach event where I was speaking befriended me online and began reading my work. My first book in the CBA market released two years later, followed by my second at age 69. The circumstances were such that it left no doubt God had opened these doors.

Will I write another book? Should I? Like you, I have ideas pushing impatiently at the borders of my mind like wild horses waiting to be released. But before I open the gates, I’m weighing the cost of spending the countless hours necessary for writing and research and many more in promotion and marketing.

The question I’m asking myself these days is simply this: “Is it Him, or is it hustle?” As a writer now in the third trimester of life, I no longer want to be controlled by the fast pace of pursuing every possible opportunity. Instead, I want to steward my speed.

Award-winning author and fellow Blue Ridge faculty member Lori Roeleveld, 62, wrote recently, “I realized I couldn’t skate through life any longer on my youth but had to carefully steward my energy.”

Most of us are familiar with Jesus’ teaching about working in partnership with Him:

“Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.  For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” Matthew 11: 28-30 NLT

In her Bible study A New Beginning, Christin Ditchfield unpacks the passage.

“Understand that in this word picture, Jesus isn’t the farmer driving the team. He’s the other ox — the older, wiser, more experienced, more mature ‘animal,’ paired with the young ox (us). He is the one who knows the path, takes the lead, and sets the pace. All we have to do is keep in step, stay connected, and follow His lead.”

The takeaway here: Jesus is not driving me —or you! He is rather walking with us, bearing the greater burden on himself.

Time is the most valuable commodity we have, isn’t it? As my friend Joleen said, “The currency is invisible, the value immeasurable.”

Henry David Thoreau put it this way: “The price of anything is the amount of life you exchange for it.”

Our calling as Christian writers is both a valuable and a costly one.  The next time your fingers hover over the keyboard as you wonder whether you should pursue yet one more opportunity, perhaps this question will help you, too:

Is it Him, or is it hustle?

When you know it’s God himself opening those gates, let your ideas gallop free, my friends. He’s holding the reins!

 

Maggie Wallem Rowe is a national speaker, dramatist, and author whose first book, This Life We Share, was a finalist for the 2021 ECPA Christian Book Award in the New Author category. Maggie has also been a TEDx presenter. Her second book, Life is Sweet, Y’all: Wit and Wisdom with A Side of Sass, released from Tyndale House Publishers in 2022. Maggie writes weekly from Peace Ridge, her home in the mountains of North Carolina. MaggieRowe.com.

 

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  1. Pam Halter says:

    Wow ~ is this ever timely for me! I have SO many opportunities to submit things. I’ve been telling myself I don’t have to submit to all of them. Writing a new short story or daily devo takes time. The time I need to keep going on the prequel to my YA fantasy novel that my publisher is waiting for!

    What is wrong with me? haha!

    Thank you for this!

    • Maggie Wallem Rowe says:

      Pam, I’m thankful to know these words were helpful to you, Blessings on your writing journey!

  2. Myra reNew says:

    Greetings Maggie-
    As I sit here at home just having turned 66 September 30,2023, unwell from a horrible cold the words you wrote seated my heart.
    Not two weeks ago I nearly lost my son to a Fentanyl overdose. When I heard the words he was blue and it took 6 Narcan doses to bring him back to life, I was overwhelmed in that moment , hearing a small quiet voice saying “ write the book”.
    So as I heal from this bout of being unwell, I will pursue writing, “Turning Away in Love.
    Only God knows what I and will it cost Mrs to fruition.
    I do know it is a story that needs to reach many struggling with children with addiction as well as a psychological disorder. In my case a son with Schizophrenia, Bi Polar 1 and a Mood Disorder.

  3. Myra reNew says:

    So here I am at home, having just turned 66 September 30, 2023, recovering from a cold and I come across what you shared Maggie.
    The words that you shared seared my heart.
    Two weeks ago for a moment in time my son was in a Fentanyl overdose. It took all of 6 doses of Narcan to bring him back to life. As I questioned where and how he was found, I heard a voice saying, he was blue.
    Overwhelmed in that moment, as I was trying to take it all in, I heard a small, still, voice, “Write the book.
    Age is not the deciding factor, God is!
    So as I heal from being unwell, I will as your words said, hover over my keys and write.
    I will pursue, with God’s leading, “Turning Away in Love” . Only God knows when it will come to fruition.
    I only need to be obedient and listen to His call to write.

    • Maggie Wallem Rowe says:

      Myra, I am thanking God with you that your beloved son survived that overdose. And you are exactly right – age is not the deciding factor in writing a book to encourage others. God is! At 70 I remind myself of that daily. Your story will strengthen many others.

  4. Jeannie Waters says:

    Thank you for sharing this wisdom. I’m at a place of wondering and seeking God’s will. Your post confirms what I’ve been thinking.

    • Maggie Wallem Rowe says:

      Jeanie, I am so glad to know this post was helpful to you. I prayed it would be an encouragement or confirmation for someone else who might be asking the same questions I am in this season.

  5. Maggie Wallem Rowe says:

    Oops – meant to spell your name correctly, Jeannie!!! 🙂

  6. Jackie Freeman says:

    As a woman who is in the ‘third-trimester of life,’ I appreciate your post more than you know. It seems the quest to make up for lost time – and to get it all done, often paralyze me.

    Your take away from Christin Ditchfield is spot on for me to remember.

    May God continue to bless you, your family, and your ministry.