by Ane Mulligan  @AneMulligan

I have a number of literary pet peeves. I see them a lot on social media. Misspelled words, misused words. My mother was a teacher and raised me to be a lover of words—a connoisseur of sorts. As such, I cringe every time one of these raises its ugly self. To say they annoy me is like saying the Titanic was just a boat. So let’s examine some of those pesky pet peeves.

Me & I

It really comes down to whether you’re the subject or object in the sentence. In the first example, we’re the object, so He crosses to Millie and I sounds right, but only because we’ve had it drilled into us to not say me. However, it’s wrong in this case. The further the object is from the subject, the stranger it may sound in using I or me. Now if Millie and I are the subject, then it’s I. Millie and I cross to Sam. It wouldn’t be Millie and me, because you wouldn’t say, Me cross to Sam. In the same way, you wouldn’t say “Sam crossed to I.” Here’s the easiest way to check for this one: If you aren’t sure, remove the other name. If it sounds off, then use “me.”

Your, & You’re

Next on the pet peeve list is the usage of your and you’re. Your is the second person possessive adjective, used to describe something as belonging to you. Your is always followed by a noun or gerund. You‘re is the contraction of you are.

To & Too

To is a preposition with several meanings, including toward and until. Too is an adverb that can mean excessively or also. Just to be clear: two is pronounced the same as to and too, but it can’t be used instead of either of them because it’s a number.

Then vs Than

The way to keep the pair straight is to focus on this basic difference: than is used when you’re talking about comparisons; then is used when you’re talking about something relating to time. Than is the word to choose in phrases like smaller than, smoother than, and further than.

There vs Their vs They’re

There is an adverb meaning in or at that place. In this sense, there is essentially the opposite of here. This is what’s known as an adverb of place which answers the question where an action is taking place. It happened over there. There can also be used as a pronoun introducing the subject of a sentence. There is still hope. Another way of looking at it is there has the word here in it.

Their is the possessive case of the pronoun they, meaning belonging to them.

They’re is the contraction of the words they and are.

If you aren’t sure, you can take a hint from the spelling.

Their has the word heir in it which can act as a reminder that the term indicates possession.

There has the word here in it. Both are places.

They’re has an apostrophe, which means it’s the product of two words.

Those are the worst offenders in my pet peeve list. I know you’ll see them o social media. It’s definitely a faux pas to point it out in the comments, so I can only hope if the rest of us use them correctly, I can read Facebook without gritting my teeth.

What are your worst pet peeves?

Ane Mulligan lives life from a director’s chair, both in theatre and at her desk, creating novels. Entranced with story by age three, at five, she saw PETER PAN onstage and was struck with a fever from which she never recovered—stage fever. One day, her passions collided, and an award-winning, bestselling novelist emerged. She believes chocolate and coffee are two of the four major food groups and lives in Sugar Hill, GA, with her artist husband and a rascally Rottweiler. Find Ane on her website, Amazon Author page, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, The Write Conversation, and Blue Ridge Conference Blog.