The Value Found by Connecting with Other Writers

@LynnHBlackburn

In my humble opinion, your fellow writers are at least as important and in many cases are more important to your success than any agent or editor.

Now hear me out on this. I have the BEST agent. BEST. There is no way I would be where I am today without her. I have been privileged to work with AMAZING editors. The kind of editors who tell you half the story works and half of it doesn’t and you wind up being so glad you listened to them. There are a couple of awards on my mantle that would NOT be there without my editor.

So don’t anyone read this and think I’m saying that editors and agents aren’t important. They are. In fact, they are often referred to as the gatekeepers of the industry. Which is true. And that’s why it makes sense that writers often feel the opportunity to pitch to a particular agent or editor is the holy grail. The key to their publishing success.

And, in some cases, it is. But . . . not always.

In fact, it has been my personal experience, and the experience of many others, that the “holy grail” for their career has been the relationships they have with other authors.

In my case, it was authors who encouraged me to enter a contest. Authors who critiqued my work as I submitted it to each round. Authors who rejoiced with me when I got a contract.

It was an author who introduced me to her agent. It was an author who put out feelers for me when I was wondering about interest in a series idea. It was an author who introduced me to her editor at a conference.

And here’s why I’m bringing this up.

Right now, lots of writers are preparing for conferences. They are entering contests and polishing manuscripts and one sheets and proposals and when they are trying to decide which conferences to attend and which appointments to make, they are hyper focused on one group.

Agents and editors.

In the process, they all but ignore the opportunities to hang out with authors. It’s not that they aren’t interested in meeting authors, but they see those relationships as the icing on the career cake, rather than what it is . . . a very crucial layer.

I can say this because I’ve lived it. I chose my first conference because of the editors and agents who would be there. At every meal, I made it a point to sit with—you guessed it—agents and editors.

But guess who else was at that conference? Authors. Lots of them. Award-winning, best-selling, indie, traditional, hybrid, multi-published in every imaginable genre authors. And the kind of authors who teach at writing conferences also tend to be the kind of authors who are willing to share their experiences with new writers who are learning the ropes.

So as you look at your precious writing dollars and try to decide which conference is the best one for you, don’t ignore the options that don’t have as many agent/editor appointments but abound with opportunities to get on a first name basis with big name authors.

Don’t assume if a national conference isn’t in your budget that all is lost. Get yourself in a LOCAL ACFW CHAPTER or a WORD WEAVERS group. Go to a regional conference or an author led event where the student to faculty ratio is small. Be friendly. Make friends.

And when you do go to the huge conferences, don’t squander the opportunities to hang out with the authors, whether there’s an agent in sight or not.

Because guess who those authors are already on a first-name basis with?

The very agents and editors you want to meet.

Grace and peace,

BRMCWC 2019 FacultyLynn H. Blackburn loves writing suspense because her childhood fantasy was to become a spy—but her grown-up reality is that she’s a huge chicken and would have been caught on her first mission. She prefers to live vicariously through her characters and loves putting them into all kinds of terrifying situations—while she’s sitting at home safe and sound in her pajamas!

Her Dive Team Investigations series kicked off in 2018 with Beneath the Surface and In Too Deep (A SIBA Okra pick and Selah Award Finalist). The 3rdbook in the series, One Final Breath, releases in September 2019. She is also the author of Hidden Legacyand Covert Justice,which won the 2016 Carol Award for Short Novel and the 2016 Selah Award for Mystery and Suspense. Lynn lives in South Carolina with her true love and their three children. You can follow her real life happily ever after at WWW.LYNNHBLACKBURN.COM and on FACEBOOKTWITTERPINTEREST, and INSTAGRAM.nd their three children. You can follow her real life happily ever after at www.LynnHBlackburn.com and on FacebookTwitterPinterest, and Instagram.

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  1. Lynn, while attending my first conference, I met some great writers. I was new to the Christian writing community, so I did not know anyone. One of the first people I met was a gentleman who gave me great advice. We prayed, and I went to my first class. My new prayer warrior taught that class. I learned he was a bestselling author and a frequent teacher at conferences. Five years later, we are still friends and prayer warriors for each other. He has been a constant source of encouragement and truth in my life.
    Since then, I’ve met many other writers who I am proud to call friends.

  2. Lynn, I can’t agree more! I’ve skipped a class to spend time with a friend. That time spent with her gave me some valued instruction, personalized for me.

  3. I recently attended a conference that so perfectly illustrates what you are saying. I stayed on the fence about going until the very last moment. None if the editors or agents present felt like a good fit for me, but some of the speakers interested me. I went with out a single plan to network with the powers that be and I made some amazing connections with other writers. I have no doubt that this was exactly what I needed and I gained more from it than I would have if I’d been rushing around to meet agents instead. My circle of writing friends is a priceless gift and keeps me going and growing far more than anything else I could invest in. Great article Lynn!

  4. Charla says:

    Truth. I am one who attended my first – and only – writers conference wihout having one word to pitch…to anyone! The encouragement I received from other writers was one way God confirmed my journey. Thank you for the budget-friendly suggestions, Lynn.